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The Top Ten Signs That Your Mate Is Cheating On You
1. Changing attitude toward your relationship: more argumentative, critical or distant --
less affectionate -- increased need for "space"
2. Unexplained absences: staying later at work -- leaving the office for lunch more often
-- spending more time "with friends" or pursuing a new hobby during evenings and weekends
--frequently off running lengthy "errands"
3. Increase in personal expenses: seems to go through pocket money at a faster rate --
credit card spending jumps
4. Changing telephone use patterns: spends more time on the phone -- seems anxious to be
first to answer phone when it rings -- mysterious incoming calls, hang-ups, "wrong
numbers" -- suddenly "needs" a new cell phone or pager
5. Greater attention to personal appearance: begins a crash diet or exercise program --
trendy new wardrobe, fragrance, hairstyle or nails
6. Added interest in the mail: wants to limit your access to it, especially phone bills,
bank, and credit card statements -- personal letters (but probably not postcards) from a
long-lost "friend" or "relative"
7. Articles of unknown origin: slips of paper with names, phone numbers,
dates/times/locations stashed in pockets, wallet or purse -- receipts showing unmentioned
purchases -- matchbooks from unknown bars or restaurants -- strange cigarette, gum or food
wrappers in vehicle
8. Mysterious bite marks, bruises, scratches, skin irritations: can't explain how "that
got there"
9. Changing sex drive: decreased interest in sex -- more aggressive/hostile during sex and
less tender/romantic -- newfound knowledge regarding a previously unexplored technique
or position
10. Unexplained odor or stain: comes home smelling of cologne or tobacco that is clearly
not their own -- lipstick on shirt collar -- stained clothing
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